For anyone whose body aches after work
I thought the pain was the price of the job. It was not.
Twelve years in hospitality. Chronic pain in my legs, my back, and my shoulders. I tried massage, the chiropractor, acupuncture — relief for a few days, then back to the start. What finally helped was more practical than any of it. This site is me writing it down as I go.
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The pain after work shows up in specific ways
It is not in your head, and it is not just because you are getting older. A body used hard all day — on its feet or at a desk — takes a specific kind of beating. Here is where it tends to show up.
Legs and feet that throb
Hours on a hard floor, much of it standing still. By hour six your legs feel heavy, swollen, and done.
A lower back that aches by hour three
Whether you stand all shift or sit at a desk, the load settles into your back and stays there.
Shoulders and a neck that will not switch off
The forward hunch over the pass, the bar, the prep table — or a screen that sits too low.
The fifteen minutes you cannot move
You get home. You sit down. You take off your shoes. And you just sit there — because your body needs it before you can stand again.
The rotation that never ends
Massage one week, the chiropractor the next, acupuncture after that. Relief for a few days — then the pain comes back.
The quiet worry about later
Some part of you wonders what this body will still be able to do in fifteen years if nothing changes.
For twelve years I believed all of that was simply the price of the job. It was not. Most of it is a set of specific, physical problems — and specific problems have specific fixes.
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I started in hospitality at sixteen. My body kept the receipts.
“By the end of a long shift, my legs ache from the standing. My shoulders carry the weight of the lifting. My lower back has been sore for years. I thought this was just what work was.”
I have spent twelve years on the floor of a five-star hotel in Toronto — day shifts, then overnight shifts from the age of twenty. For a long time I tried to fix the pain the way most people do. One week a massage. The next week the chiropractor. The week after that, acupuncture. Each one helped for a few days. Then the pain came back, and the rotation started again.
I was treating the symptoms over and over. Nobody helped me look at the cause. When I started spending more time at a desk as a supervisor, the same aches followed me — and that is when I started researching ergonomics and slowly fixing it for myself.
One night still sticks with me. A guest stopped me in a hallway at 11 p.m. asking where he could get a massage — not out of curiosity, out of need. He had money to spend on whatever he wanted, and he was dealing with the exact same pain I was. The pain does not care what your job title is.
I wrote about both journeys in my books — moving from Vietnam to Canada at fifteen in Pursuit of Success in a Foreign Land, and building a different kind of life on the side of a hospitality job in Alive After Hours.
This site documents what I am learning, in real time, as I work through my own pain. Honest about what I have tested and what I have only researched.
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Products I have researched thoroughly. The two I personally use are marked clearly. The others I have not bought yet, and I will tell you so.
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The Everlasting Comfort lumbar pillow. The most affordable starting point for desk-related back pain, and the one that helped me the soonest.
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Bauerfeind Performance Compression Socks. Significantly reduced my leg pain on long shifts. Premium price ($139 CAD per pair) — I wish I had bought them years earlier.
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What I would buy if I were shopping for a chair today. Real models available in Canada, honest about pricing.
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Alternating between sitting and standing matters more than the desk itself. Three real options at three real budgets.
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The free guide is five things. Still Standing is everything around them — the complete body-recovery system for people who work on their feet, written from twelve years of living it. It is the book I most wish I had at twenty-two.
- Why your body breaks down — and a triage for where to start
- The shift protocol — before, during, the break, and after
- The full honest buy-list, in order — what is worth it, what is a waste
- 5 printable cards + a 4-week tracker to make it a habit
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From the blog
Practical guides written from honest research — and from the body I have spent twelve years using hard.
Why your back hurts after sitting all day — and exactly how to fix it
Five fixes that actually work, including the lumbar cushion I use myself.
Best ergonomic chairs for back pain in Canada (2026)
What I would buy if I were shopping for a chair today — and why the Aeron is not on the list.
Best sit-stand desks for back pain in Canada (2026)
The standing desk does not fix your back. The habit of switching positions does.
More books I have written
If anything on this site resonates with you, you might find more in these.
Pursuit of Success in a Foreign Land
Arriving in Canada from Vietnam at fifteen years old with my twin brother Jerry, unable to speak English. Failing the IELTS exam three times. The slow years of figuring out how to build a life here.
Alive After Hours
A Hospitality Worker’s Honest Guide to Building Income, Hobbies, and Freedom on the Side of a Full-Time JobYou shower. You get dressed. You head out the door — but your heart is not in it. The honest account of working a full-time job while quietly building something on the side. This site is one of the things the book documents.
The pain work lives here. The books and workbooks live at tompham.ca — and I am on Instagram at @tomphamm.